Cinderella, and giving up perfection

Yesterday's lunch was another big hit, but today we are back to a regular sandwich because Sabrina remembered how much she wanted a Cinderella lunch. She also gets grape kabobs and pretzels today. So here's where the perfection part comes in.  This sandwich was beautiful with no face on it.  (Cinderella is made out of two types of cheese and a piece of blue fruit leather.)  BUT, Sabrina really, really wanted a face.  I offered blueberry eyes and an appleskin mouth, but she wanted me to draw them on.  A blue mouth.  It's her lunch, so here we go.  If it were just up to me, I would have left it blank.  I think this idea is something that a lot of parents struggle with- what we think looks good versus what our kids think.  I know I do.  But I try hard to not be a control freak.  It's her lunch.  She wants a blue face?  Sure.  She wants to wear orange tights with a purple dress?  Fine.  She wants to mix all the playdoh colors together?  ...I will try my hardest not to pull them apart as soon as she turns her head.  ;-)